I was sitting in an auditorium of 3000 women, soaking up all the business and life tips and the speaker on the stage said the words "Imposter syndrome". My first thought was, "is that a real thing? another made up term to justify not doing what you are supposed to be doing?" ...as I'm thinking that, she says - "those of you who have it are probably right now planning to do research to see if that is even a real thing"... uh oh. This cognitive mishap was mentioned a couple more times in the weekend. Then this morning, I mentioned it to a friend who is a counselor -and she confirms it! Honestly, while I was looking for her to denounce it, it actually made me feel better - at least someone I know, like and trust can give me some guidance here. I'm evidently in great company - pschologists think that this exists to some degree in most of us! "The beauty of the impostor syndrome is you vacillate between extreme egomania and a complete feeling of: 'I'm a fraud! Oh God, they're on to me! I'm a fraud!' So you just try to ride the egomania when it comes and enjoy it, and then slide through the idea of fraud." – Tina Fey Now, I have done some research and would probably agree that it is more of a phenomenon than it is a syndrome. Syndrome is easier to say and spell. Regardless of what you call it, according to -at the risk of jeopardizing my credibility - wikipedia, Impostor syndrome (also known as impostor phenomenon or fraud syndrome) is a term coined in 1978 by clinical psychologists Dr. Pauline R. Clance and Suzanne A. Imes referring to high-achieving individuals marked by an inability to internalize their accomplishments and a persistent fear of being exposed as a "fraud". Despite external evidence of their competence, those exhibiting the syndrome remain convinced that they are frauds and do not deserve the success they have achieved. Proof of success is dismissed as luck, timing, or as a result of deceiving others into thinking they are more intelligent and competent than they believe themselves to be. Some studies suggest that impostor syndrome is particularly common among high-achieving women. (It's that part of the definition actually makes me feel a little better - and that I can own that too means that I'm not a hopeless case too, right!)
So, have you heard of it? Do you have it too? If you do - do you want to journey with me through the straightening out of misaligned thought patterns? We have things to do. We have gifts that God has given us to steward. What we don't have time for is for thinking that tells us that we don't make a difference, we may do more harm than good by getting involved, we don't have anything valuable to say, we can never be the one to champion that or be the expert on this... or that it's ok not to live all of what God has prepared in advanced for us! It is time to get out of my own way, gheesh!
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8/5/2019 03:17:30 am
If you want to be a better version of yourself, then you need to go out of your own way sometime. Those who cannot even take this to heart, they are the ones who will never get anything done. It is really hypocritical of me talking about this, considering that I am not even doing anything with my life, but I am trying. I want everyone to take my mistake and learn from it. It is not the end, we can always try again.
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Top Three Essential Oils You Need: 99 Ways To Use Lavender, Lemon And Peppermint
There are so many amazing essential oils out there, but knowing which ones to start with can be confusing! If this sounds familiar, then you’ve come to the right place. I’m going to introduce you to the three most popular essential oils from doTERRA that I always recommend; the Beginners Trio Kit of lavender, lemon and peppermint. I’m also going to share with you how to use them andhow to reap some fabulous benefits for you and your family. Remember that these are powerful oils and shouldn’t be applied without a carrier oil such as fractionated coconut oil. You can also use sweet almond oil or even olive oil. You can read more about using essential oils safely here. Lavender Lavandula (common name lavender) is part of the mint family, Lamiaceae. Lavender flowers are usually purple, a colour associated with the crown chakra, for higher purpose and spiritual connectivity. This symbolism is so appropriate as lavender is often used for healing and. doTERRA source their lavender essential oil from Bulgaria where the sunny, dry Black Sea climate coupled with dry, well drained, sandy soils are ideal for this aromatic plant. With a distinct aroma and countless applications, lavender essential oil has been used for centuries topically, internally and aromatically. Known for its sweet-floral aroma and calming properties, the major constituents of lavender oil include linalool and linalyl acetate. The versatile nature of this lovely oil make it a doTERRA favourite, and a must-have to keep on hand at all times. 33 Lavender Oil Uses And Benefits: As my go-to Swiss Army knife essential oil, lavender is always in my holiday first-aid kit (read more here). Here’s a list of how to use lavender and some of the benefits:
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Fun fact: In one year, a single lemon tree has the potential to produce around 250kgs of lemons, and it typically takes around 45 lemons to fill a 15mL essential oil bottle. If you’d like to learn more about the benefits and uses of lemon essential oil you can watch this video: Did you know about all the skincare applications for lemon essential oil? What are your favourite ways to use this lovely citrus oil in your home? Peppermint The peppermint plant is a versatile perennial herb that has been cherished since ancient times and is now used by cosmetic, culinary, and health industries around the world. It’s well known for its ability to help digestive health, promote healthy respiratory function, and provide flavour enhancement too. No wonder it’s one of doTERRA’s best-selling essential oils. The main chemical component of peppermint is menthol which gives it the fresh and minty scent. It also makes it energising and invigorating, and is very cooling to the skin, and can be used topically to relieve feelings of tension. 33 Peppermint Oil Uses And Benefits:
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